I stood before the class on Wednesday morning, wondering how
I would make it through, wondering how all my assumptions and beliefs had been
so wrong. I am a scholar and a teacher of the American political system and
throughout my career, I’ve always had faith in the fundamentals of democracy. I
was sure that most citizens, when given a choice, would make compassionate, responsible
and informed decisions rather than merely selfish ones.
The sea of student faces stared at me, some openly hostile,
some tearful, others just curious over whether I would break down.
I was curious too. I ignored my headache and queasy stomach,
and spoke.
“As I expect you all know, last week I handed in my
resignation. I’d decided it was better to leave than to go against my beliefs
and apologize.”
Brian, the student who always sat in the front row with his Make America Great Again baseball hat
perched victoriously upon his head, scoffed. He was the one who had filmed my
speech, which the dean had declared “too partisan.” After I’d refused to apologize, the dean had accepted
my resignation. Yet I quickly regretted my choice, so my cousin Robin, who
knows a few things about PR, helped me contact the media to get my story out.
The school didn’t want negative attention, so they recognized my request, and
let me make amends and return.
But I’d never really believed that Donald Trump would
surprise the nation and win, or that my return would be on the morning after
his horrifying victory. I hadn’t slept and my eyes still stung from all my tears.
I’d been unable to stomach breakfast and was literally running on empty. Now
Brian leaned forward in his seat, ready to pounce on whatever I might say.
Another deep breath. “After a lot of reflection, I decided that
my refusal to apologize was misguided.” I spoke directly to Brian, meeting his
gaze. “Brian, I am sorry for inserting my own politics, for making you feel
judged for your ideology, and for implying that you shouldn’t voice your
opinions.”
He rolled his eyes. “Sure you are,” he said sarcastically. “We
all know you’re just here for the paycheck.” This drew a few laughs from some
of his classmates, so buoyed, he continued. “No, wait. You’re here to spout
your liberal agenda. Well, wake up. It’s a new day in America. This country doesn’t belong to you anymore.”
There were a few more laughs, but also some gasps. I let my
eyes scan the room and found enough silent support that I could continue.
“See, that’s the thing. I may be in the minority now, but
doesn’t mean that the country doesn’t still belong to me, or to anyone.” I let
my eyes settle on a couple of my Latina students, girls who I expected were now wondering how long it would be before they or their families got deported. “The
Bill of Rights was written for us all. We’ve all been given the freedom to express ourselves, to practice our
chosen religion, to assemble and protest when see fit, and to make our voices
heard.” I leaned forward, gripping the podium and choking back tears. “I came
back because it is my job to educate you on the strength of our democracy,
which will only succeed if we understand both the privilege and responsibility of
our civic rights and our civic duty. If
you remember nothing else from this course, remember this: you all deserve the right to life, liberty,
and the pursuit of happiness. Our forefathers founded this nation on that idea,
and we must not lose sight of our potential.”
I slowed down, inhaling and letting my breath out in a rush.
“You all know how I feel about the results of the election. I’m sad; but no
matter what, I still have faith that our people can achieve greatness, but
only if we refuse to give in to fear or ignorance.”
Now my tears fell, but I didn’t bother to wipe them away.
What was the point? The wiped-away tears would just be replaced by new ones. “I
believe in all of you.” My eyes travelled the room. “Even you, Brian, though your
insults make that difficult, but I still do. And I will fight to educate you,
and everyone here, if for no other reason than that is my role in strengthening
our democracy.”
The room was silent. For once Brian didn’t have anything to
say, though the scorn in his squinting eyes and puckered lips spoke loud and
clear.
Whatever.
I took a loud sniff, pulled myself together, and turned on
my power point presentation, which was about the fourth amendment (which
protects against search and seizure). “So, let’s going,” I said. “We have work
to do.”
After class, I went home and collapsed on the couch. All my
adrenaline had drained way, and I was shaking from fatigue and raw emotion. I
didn’t think I’d be able to nap, but I was too spent to try and do anything
else.
I must have drifted off, because an hour or so later I was
woken by a hand softly brushing my cheek. I blinked my eyes open, not trusting
that the face I saw looming over mine was really there.
“Monty?” I rasped. “When
did you get back?”
He was supposed to be in DC through Thursday. We’d argued
about it.
Several days ago, I’d called and laid it on the line: I
loved him, but was crazy jealous over his devotion to his
ex-girlfriend/co-worker, Evelyn. We’d talked it all through, but while I
believed that he wasn’t having a physical affair, I wasn’t so sure that he wasn’t
having an emotional one. “You’re not going to be home for election night?” I’d
said. “That’s supposed to be our night. How can we not spend it together?”
Eight years ago, when Obama won the presidency, Monty had proposed. That had
been the best night ever.
But clearly election night 2016 wasn’t going to measure up. “We’ll
talk on the phone while the results come in,” he’d answered. And we had, but it
had been strained, and once Florida looked lost, and North Carolina and Ohio
were called for Trump, and he was doing way too well in Michigan, Pennsylvania,
and Wisconsin, neither of us had the fortitude to keep a conversation going. “I
feel sick that she lost Iowa,” I’d said weakly. “I should go to bed. I need
sleep for tomorrow.”
“Good luck with your class,” he’d said. “I love you.”
“Thanks, me too.”
But the words had felt vast empty, and that night, our bed
had felt vast and empty too.
Now, as I laid on our cozy little couch, he was close enough
to touch. Yet I didn’t trust my senses.
“How’d you get here?” I asked.
“I caught a flight
this morning,” he said. “Didn’t you see my text?”
I sat up, shaking my head. “I haven’t looked at my phone for
hours.” I rubbed my eyes, trying to regain a sense a reality. “Why you’d come
back so soon?”
He sat next to me and captured me in a fierce hug. “I had to
see you,” he said, his mouth at my temple. “I couldn’t stop worrying about how
you had to apologize to that awful student, who would surely be gloating after
last night.”
“He did gloat, but I got through it.”
“Of course you did.” Monty released me and raked a hand
through his wavy hair, which looked unwashed. His cheeks were stubbly, and he
wore the soft sweatshirt that he often changed into in the evenings. He must
have skipped a shower this morning, but that only made me want to get close, to
inhale his familiar scent. “I needed to tell you, in person, how proud I am of
you, and how important I think it is that you keep teaching, especially now
that Trump has won.”
“Thanks.” My voice was barely more than a whisper. I stared
at the blanket that I’d draped over my lap. “Is that why you came home? To tell
me that?”
“Partly.” He attempted a sad little laugh. “I needed get out
of DC, and get you into my arms. It was the only way things might make sense
again.”
I looked him in the eyes. “Are you okay?”
“Of course not,” he replied. “Are you?”
I shook my head no. “But I’m going to try to be.”
He nodded and his face crumpled. “I’m sorry, Luce – for everything.
I’m sorry I made you doubt me, I’m sorry we weren’t together last night, and
most of all, I’m sorry I can’t give you the world that you wanted.”
“I never expected you give me the world, Monty.”
“But I really wanted to.” With a deep inhale, he leaned
back. “I’ve haven’t slept and you’re probably won’t believe me. But I’ve been
thinking about this for a while.”
“Thinking about what?”
“That I’m tired of leaving all the time. That you, Noah, and
Abby deserve better.”
I smoothed my snarled hair, tucking it behind my ears,
trying to be composed. “Traveling is part of your job, Monty. We understand
that you have to be in DC at least some of the time.”
“But I’m saying I want a different job.” His mouth set into
a firm line and he made two fists, to keep his fingers from tapping against the
couch cushion. “There’s a firm here in Des Moines that specializes in
immigration law. They take cases from all over the country, and I want to see
if they’ll let me work with them.”
“Immigration law?”
He unclenched his fingers and took my hands in his. “I’m
going to stop that bastard from deporting every single person that possibly I
can.” He raised one of my hands to his mouth and kissed my palm. “And I want
you to know that I’m still with you, that home is where I want to be, and that for
now and forever, you will always be the only woman for me.”
His gaze was deep and penetrating, profound enough to stop
my shaking.
“What do you think?” he asked.
I answered him with a kiss and his mouth responded to mine with
passion. One hand pressed me to him, while his other hand caressed the back of my
neck before he plunged his fingers into my hair.
I stopped kissing him just long enough to speak. “I love you
so much.”
“I love you too.”
Our bodies intertwined. But more than that, on this most heartbreaking
of days, we found the potential for healing in each other. No doubt that there were
dark days ahead, but a glimmer of hope still shone through, the notion that
when you least expect it, love can still trump hate.